d’LiL Insignificant Star

Pay-it-forward

seri — Wed, 07 Jul 2010 01:11:44 +0000

MOVIE REVIEW.

Pay-it-forward throws in a good message to everybody. It simply shows how little effort evolves into something transforming. If hand in hand we go together plodding a single united path, we can make things big. Alone is just a drop, but all together these drops make an ocean. Seeing this movie warms the heart of its audience. This is one good-melodramatic opera that is worth to capture the soft spot of every viewer. Realization and reflection is necessary to seize the profound message of the underlying concept in the story.

Love begets love. Thus the same principle works on hate and harm. Harm begets harm. Hate yields hate. Knowing what the right decision in life is inevitably necessary. It is always the quantity the counts but in a rational comprehension of things, it is the quality of what we decide to make that weighs more. Some solutions just don’t work. We live in an irreversible world where an action would evoke a reaction and that no matter what we try to do, no mathematical solution, scientific method and even the pay-it-forward or pay-it-to-everybody action could ever alter what is rendered. What is done is done. We cannot change bygones. After all the past is our history and it’s our reason for what we have become today. In a less complicated statement, the better adequate scheme than the three-favor chain is living our lives the way we are not being of havoc or pressure to anyone. START TODAY.

LAUGH OUT LOUD!!!

seri — Wed, 07 Jul 2010 01:09:43 +0000

Monday afternoon – Tardy, I got myself reviewing my old articles when I suddenly bumped into this one. It’s just a little funny re-reading my old stuff and suddenly realizing that everyone around me has been staring at me as I was making couple of silly grins all throughout, ALONE.
Stupid. haha
Well, stupido I may be that doesn’t matter at all. We, Filipinos love to laugh. Yeah, my boyfriend is a breathing proof to that, believe me, he laughs so good. “hahaha hehehe hohohoh” He really is a humorous person…that one person who easily giggles at my most ridiculous joke. What is my life without him!
REGRESSION! This is not supposed to be about him. Anyway, as I was saying we find pleasure laughing, emphasizing things that are obviously flaunting to the eyes. And then we laugh. We may look stupid but as I repeat, that doesn’t matter at all.
Like the following instances:
 At the movie house, when we see some acquaintances or friends, we usually ask them this ever stupid question: “Hey, what are you doing here?” Heavens! That is a movie house then people are supposed to watch movies inside. I wonder what people are thinking when they come to ask this stuff.

 Another thing is when a heavy man wearing huge army shoes steps on your foot. Then a proceeding question pops out of foolishness: “Oh I stepped on your foot does it hurt?” Oh my holy God! You are a complete insane if this is the first thing to get to your mind… Imagine your weight plus gravity… So just a sort of tips for you guys out there, if someone makes this question out of same circumstances, just answer this with an eyebrow raising as high as it could get: “oh no, that didn’t hurt at all ‘cause I am in total anesthesia…why don’t you try again.” Believe me guys, stupid persons are really everywhere. Beware because they could be just your seatmates.

 One situation is at a funeral: One of the teary-eyed people asks…”Why, why him, of all people.” Hello? Why? Someone’s asking why him? Then who? Would it rather have been you? In reality, everyone would come to a point when he would need to bid farewell to the earth.

 And here’s another one. At a family get-together, some distant aunt meets you after years and exclaims…”oh my! You’ve become so big.” Duh! Earth to Auntie… Of course, you will grow big in years’ time or I guess your auntie must have shrunk herself.

 That was one ridiculous idea. Well here’s sillier than that. When a friend announces her wedding, another friend suddenly asked…”Is the guy you’re marrying good?” Oh boy! Who would have wanted to marry a bastard and in case he is a wife-beating one, would he admit it? Just a teensy of common sense dear friends.

 Sometimes a little rational sense is what our everyday life requires us to have… Just like in here, when you get woken up at midnight by a phone call, the caller would hastily ask you, “Sorry for this late call, Are you sleeping?” Dumb witted moron! How are you supposed to answer the phone if you are still sleeping?

 That was one dead stupid. Another goes something like this, when a friend saw me with a shorter hair, out of her birdbrain mind, she unconsciously asked me, “Hey have you had a haircut?” Oh my! How would my hair get shorter if I didn’t get a haircut or maybe my friend thought its autumn and my hair have just fallen. That’s hilarious!

 Here another one. At the clinic, when the dentist is sticking sharp-pointed objects in your mouth, he would then ask, “Tell me if it hurts?” God! Mr. Dentist! Oh No it doesn’t hurt… It is just bleeding the hell out.

 And here’s my last piece. You are smoking a cigarette and a friend asks…
”Oh, so you smoke.” Just simply have this answer, “Gosh, it’s a miracle….it was a piece of chalk and now it’s in flames!!” Why do they have to reiterate the obvious?
Well folks, these are just some of the stuff that has customarily catches my juvenile and humorous attention… Fine, hold it my friends, no hard feelings, I am just quoting what has been said and just trying to emphasize the obvious. Laugh out loud!

Thank you very much!

ON MARTIAL LAW…

seri — Mon, 07 Dec 2009 08:45:48 +0000

“Article VII, Section 18 of the 1987 Constitution states that: In case of invasion or rebellion, when the public safety requires it, (the President) may, for a period not existing 60 days, suspend the privilege of the writ of habeas corpus or place the Philippines or any part thereof under martial law. The same provision also allows the Supreme Court to review any appropriate proceeding filed by any citizen” questioning the factual law basis of the proclamation of martial law. The same provision also states that the high tribunal should promulgate its decision 30 days after filing.”

-MARTIAL LAW in Maguindanao really bothered me, so i made that lil research.

There really is no factual basis for the declaration of martial law in Maguindanao. It’s just a reckless move of taking effect a warrantless-arrest in the province for the alleged suspects of the Maguindanao massacre. I personally think that this is a desperate move for the lacking of sufficient evidence to imprison somebody. I’m not taking sides. I sincerely feel for all the victims of this tragedy. But we have what we called ‘due process’. This declaration is purely panicky and “pagpapakitang-gilas lang”. I really hope for the immediate and proper work out of this case.

At the back of my mind, something is playing- that someone bigger than we thought is really behind this thing.

*hope i still live after publishing this*

ON MARTIAL LAW…
EST: December 7, 2009
*I have watched the Maguindanao Case Retrieval Operation. It’s very disappointing. I can’t believe what I’ve seen but it happened! It’s so diabolic, brutal and very evil! I can’t help myself saying F*CK! Goddam that monster who did that. Let’s pray for the innocent souls who have witnessed they’re own death in the hands of a criminal who hides in a flesh of a human.

BE PATIENT. It never fails.

seri — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 06:38:44 +0000

Every now and then, I try to see myself: my behavior, my manners, my values, my logic. I scrutinize the every teensy detail of myself whether I am being a pressure to my people or not.

Am I mean and wicked?
Am I too strict and stiff?

And so at the end of this every self-evaluation, I became much of a sissy- just as not to hurt or offend anybody else anymore.

But most often than not, when I try to change myself to be pretty good as an angel does – evil auras keep playing around, pulling me to be the way they are. Those people who godddam care not for the people around them, or even for the filthy words they said and the ill-mannered they’ve become. If the resistance is weak, I might as well end up being bad and mean and rude again just like as some of the people around me are.

Thank God. He listens to my prayers.
I always want to be good. Just the right creation worthy to receive the many blessings He bestows onto me and my family.
I just hope the resistance within me strengthens more and more.

And I just hope, those people realize the many happy-seconds of their lives wasted whenever they resort into minutes of anger and hatred.

Prayers work.

REFLECTION:
Sometimes a LOUD-MOUTHED, INCOMPETENT person seems to be getting the best in you. You need to be nothing but PATIENT and wait for them to self-destruct.

It never fails.
God knows everything.

BE PATIENT. It never fails.
EST: October 27, 2009

Never have to see the dawn..

seri — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 04:20:01 +0000

“We can easily detach ourselves from all the material things around us; in just a snap everything would all be gone.”

It was one Saturday that I got to appreciate how lucky my life had been for the past 19 years. I feel so ashamed that it had to have a stormy-Ondoy day to make me realized the teensy of blessings that I have.

That Ondoy almost killed me. Yes. Maybe a little far-fetched from physical but nearly to emotional and psychological. I learned how scared I am to die. And the mere thought that I am gonna die a worthless person without anything offered in this lifetime gives me that pain to face death.

Unexplainable fear – fear that I may never wake tomorrow and live my life the way it was. Fear that I may never have to see the dawn.

But we made it through the storm. I know I’m fortunate that I survived. We survived. And I think it’s a reason for me to become more than just thankful.

Indeed, I see just how ironic this world seemed to be. We keep on struggling for certainty yet we live in this big world of uncertain. Maybe somehow God wanted to let us know that today is always a great opportunity to seize life. And that no more than any material things can save us from the pain of death for we can easily detach ourselves from all the material things around us; in just a snap everything would all be gone.

Never have to see the dawn..
EST: October 5, 2009

REALIZATION/

seri — Fri, 18 Sep 2009 09:46:58 +0000

Four years ago, I was struggling over my pants to enroll in at least a 4-yr degree course. Uncertain, I got myself into Accountancy – a five year degree program in our University. Everything was all good until I top notched the whole department landing a GWA of 1.18. My parents were happy and proud. My friends were all cheering me with smiles. My old school is taking its hat off just to express how proud I’ve made them.

They were all happy.
But I’m NOT.

I knew ranking No. 1 on the dean’s list of Accountancy, a thing I never really planned to do, would really cause me so much in the future.

EXPECTATIONS.
HIGHEST OF STANDARDS.
SCRUTINY EVERY NOW AND THEN.

Things I ought not to get from the course I never ever dreamed to be in. It was all unpremeditated. Being into something I never really like was being dressed perfectly good but I aint that comfortable to be on it for people to see.

So I decided to shift my course into something I would want myself to be 5 years from the day I took courage to say no from all the fame I had.

Today, I am happy, struggling and contented. I am a level 3 Civil Engineering student. My standards lowered. From the grudge and disappointment I shed 3 years ago for receiving a 1.75 in typing (a 5-unit subject in accountancy) and 1.5 in accounting, I now humble myself to be perfectly thankful for getting the least passing an honor student can have.

Today, September 18, Finals is nearing. First Sem is dawning. The real challenge takes on. I’m already facing a threat; it’s best to increase the awareness. I used to say, I want the best in life. I wanted to live and seize everything.

My old self (quote from the captain of Wall-E): “I dunwanna survive. I WANNA LIVE.”

Now, I know God has humbled me to be here…to be this way. The memory of that 1.18 is now just the proudest part of my yesterday. Something I would still wanna brag for my old self but I rather be the proudest of what I am achieving today. Before I used to get everything the easiest effort I could exert. These days, I am all drained down from sweat to tears to blood. Yeah, that is partly an exaggeration. But I’d like to think it that way that God is teaching me how to fish. Work hard for everything I wanted.

I dont wanna survive. I wanna live. But yeah, today, surviving is the least I can do. GET the BAREST OF NECESSITIES.

From this day on, I SHALL SURVIVE!

REALIZATION/
EST: September 18, 2009

What’s not to love about me?

seri — Tue, 01 Sep 2009 05:45:03 +0000

The heart only forgets when a better memory has taken its part. YOUVE TAKEN HIS PART, NOW I SHALL NEVER FORGET YOU/

Three years ago, I used to find myself fussing and crying for the old memory that I knew I shall never forget. Until you came and taken his place.

Everything has been a replay. LOVE has taken its toll on me again.

Short-lived romance.

Opening my heart is a bet I shall never do but I did. Time flies so quickly when we talked, I knew I was falling in love with this stranger. It was never easy to entrust my heart again to somebody but you made everything so genuine. If you goddam care much, you should’ve known how vulnerable I am to fall. But I shall never regret this. It’s my choice.

*Words are just words. You can do nothing with them*

Now I shall see myself fussing and crying for a new memory again. It was never meant. But I’d like to believe God gave me that chance to be happy. He gave me the chance to bleed and learn.

Love is a seed that I shall have planted and let grow. But as young and helpless as it was, it died too early too soon. I know something went wrong along the way. Or maybe EVERYTHING was wrong since the start. And I was blind to merely overlooked everything. Maybe, I have spoiled the blossom through so much fertilizer. Have I forgotten something? Or have I given so much of everything?

*You don’t deserve me. You deserve someone else.*

I’ve been lame. And it’s pretty cool I’ve been that dork again. It’s nice to fall in love. And being in love is always a privilege to share myself to somebody/

The only sad part is I have to grow apart from the world I have known to live all the while. I have to say goodbye. Now literally, emotionally I AM APART FROM YOUR WORLD. And I shall endure everything that comes with it.

I shall be happy I met you. You gave me brand new memory to smile for. I’d like to see things this way

*The heart only forgets when a better memory has taken its part. YOUVE TAKEN HIS PART, NOW I SHALL NEVER FORGET YOU*

Just one thing bugs me. Am I doomed to become a third party forever? Or I’m just too sissy to fight for everything? Cloddish. It’s confusing. I’m caught with the rationale of making a risky decision. I guess I’M STILL AN ANGEL.

*What’s not to love about me?*

What’s not to love about me?
EST: September 1, 2009
*The day after I posted this blog entry, my ‘supposed-man-not-boyfriend’ (haha, foolish MUs) returned to me. So I guess I just wasted my effort ranting for this-blogging for a goodbye post. LMAO. Life is funny. Yeah, Ive expected he’d come back. ahahah On a second note, i remember a friend told me about the “guy=toothbrush” 3month expiration rule. Hmmmm

Counting
Mum, Can you pick me a new toothbrush in the grocery? LOL

Not again/

seri — Wed, 26 Aug 2009 04:05:22 +0000

As i look myself in the mirror, I no longer see the old naive girl who used to wrap around her shell whenever something or SOMEONE would try to come in.

That old lil girl…she’s tired. Who would have thought that I am that rather confiding sweet lil girl 3years ago. Well, I used to be. I was.

Everything has changed. There’s this one man who made me this way. The way that I am complicated today is partly because of him. And I decided to be this way. It’s kinda doltish but yeah, it affected me so much. My logic. My perception. My credence and confidence with the things around me has been tarnished. And I know, that lil trusting girl’s all gone.

It sad to believe that I made myself into the kind of person I am right now. My mind is clouded with apprehension. I know I was never this, but I am now. It’s a lot despairing to know that half the world all through this has made the littlest of effort to negate the way I breathe life. It’s cloddish that the more I am spoiled with this lame detraction the more that people around prove that what I do is right.

*TRUST*

Just give me a teensy of reason to believe you. He knows how much I try to believe everything. I am crazy trying to open my heart again. It feels sick whenever I believe your words then just a glimpse of something my mind cant comprehend, I end up doubting you. The Lord knows how much I am willing to give you a chance. I am dumping everything for the huge chance of letting you in. How can I do it if you’re not helping yourself get over with things? It’s a worse feeling that you’re actions are making me brood over the crazy past I have resolved to forget. I am clueless of everything. HELP YOURSELF. HELP ME.

Not again/

EST: August 26, 2009

INSPIRATION/

seri — Tue, 25 Aug 2009 09:48:17 +0000

*How it feels to be a duck

FW:
m just like a duck in a pond..
calm and carefree…
but little did any people see are my struggling and restless feet underwater…what you see isn’t always what it seems…

I SAY:
if you happen to cross path with me one fine sunny day, with me, wearing my most indespensable sweetest smile, m just trying to hide in something…

look far beyond and you will know how dreadful, my heart is bleeding because of the longing that’s killing me inside:(

without you life is plain, benumbed and insensible…this doom of solitude is giving me aches and pangs…*tears*

**MY FEELINGS

FW:
I dont mind not having what i want. For i know deeply within myself that i deserve someone much better, precisely i dont even need whom wasnt really for me even i need him desperately, ’cause maybe someone deserve him much better than me, and i should be happy.. i really should, just to cover up with what my feelings might be..

***CHANGE

people change for two reasons:

either they learn enough that they want to..
or they’ve been hurt enough that they have to:(

****CRUSH

FW:

that’s whay they call them crushes…

if they were easy, they would be called something else…”,

I SAY:

That’s why they call them crush/

They’re meant to crush you.

Break you. And pound you into small fragments.

Until you say, “I’m crushed. Literally.”

INSPIRATION/

EST: March 05, 2008

From the bottom of my heart & my hypothalamus, THANK YOU VERY MUCH!

seri — Tue, 25 Aug 2009 09:41:17 +0000

To the near 50% of the university population who supported me last council election, thank you very much.

I may not get back to each @ everyone of you personally, (coz youre a lot yah know,lol) but through this, i hope ill be able to extend my warmest and sincerest gratitude.
Your votes made me feel so much trusted.

LOVE YOU GUYS!
THANK YOU FOR THE LANDSLIDE? VICTORY YOU GAVE ME!
ya, i know it’s kinda soo much to say that. But remembering the digits & the precinct polls, like it gave me the lame-license to brag; man those were just too much for me i guess. It almost made me suspend my biases to the ground. gee, really, THANK YOU!

To the people, who played detraction, Thank you for making me understand that it’s not always my game I play.

To the people who said, it’s just because of the ‘pretty face’, jeez I gotta say I’m flattered though. But winning two sets in a row, isnt it much for a lady with just a face? Well, thinkin I got critics like you guys always makes me smile and say ‘I got my fans impersonating to be critics. Is that how much you love me guys? Deymn too sweet criticism. LOL!’ SILLY EH?

Yea, seriously, it’s more than winning your votes but your TRUSTs/

I LOVE YOU GUYS!
I LOVE MYSELF, TOO/ OOPSY, yea, I love myself quite a bit

From the bottom of my heart & my hypothalamus, THANK YOU VERY MUCH!

EST: August 08, 2009